Faithful: a Reminder for 2016

Before I say anything, I just want to make 2 things quite clear:

  1. I’m very emotional. All the time. It doesn’t matter if I am happy or sad, I’m all-in man. I feel those feels.
  2. I try not to let my emotions control me. Really I do.

Okay, now that we’ve gotten that settled, let me let you know that this is an emotional post.

Last year, for my 22nd birthday, Tyler got me this real great little Q&A 5-year journal. Each day there is a question, and you record your answers for 5 years. I am almost actually really good about keeping up with it, too!


When my birthday came around this year, I entered year 2 of the journal. Each time I write an entry, I can see the previous year’s response as well. And let me tell you… last year at this time, I was in a rough place.

We were in transition, having recently changed our life plans entirely and being about 500 miles northeast from where we thought we would be. We were both working temporary “summer” jobs with no guarantee that they would last. We had been out of school for about 6 months and the student debt beast had raised its ugly head, letting us know that 500 miles is no feat for debt, and it will find you. In November, Tyler lost his job. For 2.5 months, we lived off of the paycheck for one, temporary, low-paying job. We dug into the savings we had thankfully built off of wedding money, and we (by the grace of God and the help of loving family and friends) made it through. Meanwhile, however, we both felt caught. Tyler was jobless, and I was working what was supposed to be a temporary customer service job that could end at any point, with a degree in my hand that really felt more like a  mocking piece of paper than an accomplishment to display. As I look through my previous answers in my journal, this is the common theme:

November 8 Q: What topic are you bored talking about? A: “Do you have a job yet?” “have you checked indeed? “what about the county websites?”

December 10 Q: What surprised you today? A: I guess it shouldn’t have been a surprise, but I didn’t get the job…

December 12 Q: What’s on your wish list? A: a job. seriously.

December 14: Q: Why are you impressive? A: According to employers, I’m not. 😉

Get the picture? I was in a great mood. 😉 hahaha. But FYI, here are a few things that happened since then:

  1. They kept me on at my temp job, all the way through the slow season. I even got a minor promotion and raise!
  2. In February, Tyler got a job.  The hours are rough, but he loves what he does. We got insurance. We were able to get on our feet and start budgeting.
  3. In May, in a whirlwind weekend, I was offered a part-time job with the potential for growth.
  4. In August-ish, I was offered a full-time position with that company, and though it would involve moving about 2 hours away, it came with a raise and a chance to actually use my degree! Despite many people telling us we were fools not to jump at the opportunity, we eventually came to the decision to turn the offer down. Although it wasn’t a far move, it would’ve meant the start of another job hunt for Tyler, moving (ugh), leaving family… and honestly, at the end of the day we said, “If we’re not 100% behind this, and we don’t feel like God is telling us to go, and with the extra expenses it doesn’t even seem like a financial gain… why are we doing it?” We stayed.
  5. In late October/early November, I was recommended to the Accounting department at my temp job and started temping in their department instead, getting the chance to use my degree!
  6. In December, I was asked to apply to the full-time position in that same department, that I “didn’t qualify for”. Ultimately, I was offered the position and accepted!

Can I just tell you? God is good.  A year ago, I started doubting things could ever get better. Nothing made sense. I was going to be stuck for the rest of my life. We kept pushing forward though and let me say, I feel like I’m living an entirely different life now! A year ago, if you asked me if I’d move to Rochester for a job, I would’ve said yes. A year ago, if you had asked me if I could stay home alone while my husband worked nights, I would have been hesitant. A year ago, if you had asked me if my temporary customer service job was going anywhere, I would’ve laughed.

The thing is… God knows where we’re going. He knows that the circumstances we’re in are only temporary. He knows what’s around the corner. He knows He has great plans. For goodness sake, next time things feel hopeless, like they’ll never improve, and I’m feeling terrified at the prospect of whatever is coming… remind me. Remind me that He has been faithful before. Remind me that there’s no reason to keep grabbing at the sand falling through my fingers- it’s not even mine to hold. He’s got it covered.

2015 is just about over. 2016 starts tomorrow, and with it comes magic. Not because it will suddenly be easy or better or more clear… but because every new year, every single new morning, is a reminder that there is hope. You never know what this day will bring. Choose to face it with a hope fueled by what you know- He is faithful. He was faithful before, He’ll be faithful again. Put your faith in the only One who already knows the troubles, joys, challenges, and excitement that you’ll face in 2016.


My Groceries and Me

By this time, you already know my secret.

I’m a nerd. About certain things, anyway. I’m a nerd about frugality and budgeting and finances, but hey I have a degree in Accounting so what do you expect?! Give me a break, it comes naturally.

I’m about to tell you another way I show my nerdiness. I made a price list.

Yep, that’s right. Like a sheet listing the different prices at each store. I realized a few months ago that while I loved shopping at Tops for deals, I was having a hard time determining what a “deal” really was. If something is BOGO, it automatically makes me think it’s a deal… but if the price is double what I could get it for somewhere else, it’s really not great savings.  I hemmed and hawed over this for a few weeks, frustrated about the fact that I would buy something for a “great deal” and then never really know if it was one.

Enter Excel. (As with all of my nerdiness).

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I took one free afternoon while Tyler slept, and headed to the grocery store, notebook in hand. I walked up and down all of the aisles and wrote down every price for things I usually buy. Okay, not every price… but a good chunk of them. I also wrote down the size so that I could know the price per unit. I went to three stores that day and completed this process. It took me a little while, but it really was only that one time, and now I have a great base in order to do my shopping!

Now, if I go to Tops and see that something is BOGO, I can pull out my list and see how much it is at Aldi and Walmart and if I really want to buy it. It also helps ahead of time when I’m making my list, because I can categorize things according to the store. I know I’m a nerd and that not everyone has time to do this, but it honestly didn’t take too long and was so worth it to me. A couple of tips:

  1. Don’t do this when you have your kids or husband present. Unless they’re particularly in to this kind of stuff, they are going to be bored and complainy and you are going to get mad and say “WHY DO I TRY TO DO NICE THINGS FOR THIS FAMILY” and it’s all a waste and you’ll tell me how terrible this idea is. Don’t do this. Try and squeeze in this time alone. All it takes is one afternoon.
  2. Continue to update slowly. If I’m at a store and happen to see something that I know is missing a price on my list, I’ll snap a quick picture of it on my phone in order to add later. No fuss, just quick and done and I’ll fix it on the list when I get a chance. Also, some of my prices on the list are my sale prices
  3. Realize that sometimes for convenience, it’s worth the extra cent. I’ve found that once I made my price list, I do almost all of my shopping at Aldi. Turns out the great deals I was getting other places weren’t as great as I thought they were. However, Aldi has limited hours compared to our 24-hour Walmart. Obviously, Walmart wins sometimes. Also if I have only one thing to get at one store and all the rest at another, it’s not worth making the trip for one item that’s a little cheaper.
  4. It does add up! I know that you might think it’s not worth the trip to a store like Aldi or Save-A-Lot that might not have everything you need, but think again. Doing this price list made me realize that some things are quite a bit cheaper at Aldi, and boy does it make a difference. For example, I can get cream cheese at Aldi for .99/block, whereas at Tops I can get it (on sale) for 1.50/block, and at Walmart 1.99/block. That means it’s double the price at Walmart. Once I started seeing this on my price list I realized it was ridiculous not to shop at Aldi. There was also a week where everyone was rejoicing over grapes being 1.99/lb at a couple grocery stores. Meanwhile I was buying them at Aldi for .99/lb, and they were great quality. A dollar here or there may not seem like a lot, but it is!

So there ya have it, folks. I know, some of you are thinking this is just crazy. But I like to pretend I’m organized now and then. 😉


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Laundry: A Terrifyingly Realistic Photo Essay

This is the laundry that never ends


It just goes on and on my friends


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*Ahem*. Taking care of a bit of this nonsense tonight, but if you don’t hear from me tomorrow… send help. I might have gotten lost in the mountain.


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The Method to my Madness

If you walked into my house right now, you’d be greeted by this:

beautfiul, huh?

beautiful, huh?

Doesn’t that just make you wanna come over and get comfy? 😉 This, my friends, is what it looks like to be halfway through the process of getting rid of clutter in my home. This post will be the brief explanation of what my method has been–I swear there really is one behind this pile of nonsense.

Earlier this year I read the book The Get Yourself Organized Project, and launched from there. I did tweak it quite a bit, but my inspiration was borne out of that book, and I would recommend it! Over the last couple months, I have been going through every nook and cranny of my house and looking at each item, deciding if it should stay in my home or make its way out.

Each one of these bins (plus another that happens to be in my car at the moment) is a collection of items in one of the following categories:

  • sell
  • donate
  • give away (I know it sounds the same as donate, but these items have been spoken for–more on that later)
  • storage (this is then broken up into holiday, memories, and ‘future’–aka future kids etc. Like the toys and books we can’t bear to get rid of but we don’t really need cluttering up our living room right now.)

I do obviously have multiple boxes for a few of the categories, because they outgrew one box. I’ve also had the opportunity to lessen the sell and giveaway categories because–well, I’ve already sold or given them away! 😉

Sell– I’m not really someone that wants to spend a lot of time and energy on something that’s only going to make me a couple of bucks. For this reason I don’t really sell on eBay, Craigslist, or Facebook yard sales, but these avenues may work great for you! Books, movies, and video games (easily packable, easily listed) I generally sell on Amazon. This fall, for the first time, I decided to sell a few items on my Facebook page. I took a few pictures, threw a price on them, and put them in an album on Facebook. Lastly, a Plato’s Closet just opened in our area (consignment shop that pays upfront!) and although they’re picky, I did sell a few items there! Between these three things, I’ve made over $100 in the past two months. So I’m not a millionaire, but I also put very little time and effort into it. So I’ll take whatever I can get!

Donate– These things are either finding their way to Salvo, a shelter, or another local donation center.

Give Away– Personally, I have a hard time not being a pack rat. I like to keep things because of “what if”. I think this is a combination of being A) not rich, and B) a crafter. These two things make me feel like I have to keep everything just in case. However, it makes me feel a lot better if I know that my items are going to someone who I know is going to want and use them! Therefore, for my personal entertainment, I put another album on Facebook full of items that I was giving away, and let people speak for them if they were interested! As I said, this is entirely unnecessary, it just made it more enjoyable for me. I also sent personal messages to friends and family members, plus had them go through items that I was getting rid of, to see if they or anyone they know had a need.

Storage– I think this speaks for itself. I’m going to store this stuff. So there’s that.

As previously mentioned, I want to get all of these boxes to their perspective homes before the holidays come around. As great as they look in this corner, I’m kind of done having them there. The system is going well so far. I’ll keep ya posted! 😉


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People > Things

If you’re following along, you may have noticed that I’ve been a bit absent the last few days.

I don’t really even have an excuse for you, except that I’ve been spending quality moments with some of my favorite people.

our godchildren. aren't the the cutest?!

our godchildren. aren’t they the cutest?!

Since it was my birthday week, a lot of my free time was spent with family and friends. I love these people.

People > Things

my very best friends. what would I do without these people?!

All of that to say that a few of my smaller deadlines with my goal of finishing sorting got pushed back a little. *However*, today was my day off and guess what, people.. I CAUGHT UP. I don’t know how I managed to have the will power, but I did. I did both of the projects that I planned to do last week and never got to. I didn’t, however, do laundry. I guess that waits for tomorrow. Oh well.

The point is, people > things. And ‘things’ includes this blog, housecleaning, and special projects. Sometimes you just have to spend time with your people. And I am so glad to have the people I have.

Soon, I will give you a bit more of an update with my goal and the process I’m using to get there, but I will leave you with this for tonight: clean the top of your fridge. You just might find a forgotten visa gift card that’s been collecting dust for 10 months, and you just might be able to buy yourselves a nice pizza dinner. 😉


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I Put the Pro in Procrastination

Let me tell you about a nasty little habit I have.

When I get that feeling of being overwhelmed and that I won’t be able to do everything… I lay in bed and do nothing.

Current status: bed, apple juice, Friends. Pro at procrastination.

Current status: bed, apple juice, Friends. Pro at procrastination.

I’m even currently procrastinating going to sleep. Because it stands to reason that the sooner I go to sleep, the sooner it will seem that I need to get up, and so if I don’t go to sleep I won’t have to get up and go to work. And so here we are. Instead of sleeping, I’ll watch Netflix, ramble on and on to you, and sleepily check Facebook again. And then tomorrow I’ll hate myself for not getting more sleep.

Help! My procrastination is ridiculous. It’s just really bad when you even procrastinate the things you want to do. Like sleep. How do I get this under control? And how do I write my blog earlier in the day so that I’m not just rambling on at midnight? And how do I convince you to come do my laundry so that I don’t have to do it all myself?


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10… Second… Tidy!!!!

While most little kids were singing along with a big purple dinosaur’s clean up song, I was shouting along with Lunette the clown, “10… SECOND… TIDY!!!!” Followed by making fast-motion noises and running around the room cleaning up in super-speedy mode!

I mentioned yesterday that I’ve been feeling a bit overwhelmed lately. Life is feeling out of control and I really need to learn to say ‘no’ to new commitments. Ugh. Anyway, before bed tonight I decided that I needed to have one thing under control. My house feels cluttered and disorganized and I needed at least one sane place that might not be perfect but would at least be calm.

Enter ‘before’ shots of the living room…

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Tonight, I was too tired to fix the entire house. So I set a timer for 15 minutes and got to work! The room really wasn’t even all that messy, but as a general rule I wouldn’t do anything about it on a night like tonight. I was tired, I’m worn out… and yet 15 minutes later, I had this:

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Seriously? Then why don’t I just take the 15 minutes every night? I just wish I could stuff everything in the couch cushions like Lunette does. 


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